chore: export useControlledState from react-stately and react-aria-components

[reidbarber]

Closes #6222

Seems fine to export since we use this in React Spectrum v3/S2 people might want to similarly use it without needing to install the individual package. If we have other concerns, I can close this and close the original issue.

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• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

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## API Changes

react-aria-components

/react-aria-components:useControlledState

+useControlledState <C = T, T> {
+  value: T
+  defaultValue: T
+  onChange?: (C, Array<any>) => void
+  returnVal: undefined
+}

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[snowystinger]

Given the known limitations, as mentioned in the comment below about setState with prev state, do we actually want to export this? or will this confuse people?

[snowystinger]

Suggested change

	* @param onChange - Callback fired whenever the value changes.
	* @param onChange - Callback fired whenever the value changes.
	* @returns [value, (val) => void] - something here about how we don't support the prevState callback on setState?

[reidbarber]

Discussed with the team and we decided not to include in the monopackage.